Relationships have the potential to be the most extraordinary tool for growth and expansion. Only through our relationships do we have the opportunity to create a synergy between individuals. A human synergy arises when people with complementary skills cooperate. It is in the synergy of a union where real joy and fulfillment is experienced. If this synergistic connection works well, we just can’t get enough of it.
The eighth Essential “Realizing Purpose” magnifies the importance of recognizing the subtle orchestrations of the universe in our relationship choices. The necessary prerequisite for someone to find their unique counterpart in another, and the understanding of “cosmic” timing, -conditions and -purpose. When one flows with this universal guidance, it is certain that two energetically compatible souls will meet. Through this fusion a new dimension emerges. Just like the chemical reaction of hydrogen and oxygen produces life-giving water, the alchemy of two aligned beings creates a result greater than the sum of their individual contribution.
Many people are afraid of loosing their identity when entering into a relationship with a potential “synergistic connection” or soul mate. It is difficult for them to relate from this new perspective, since they have no point of reference. Some are hesitant to give up their autonomy and are fearful of losing their freedom by melting into such a deep union. Others are concerned that they would not matter as an individual, if they would relinquish what “defines” them. What is missing is the understanding that true power comes from the acceptance of our INTERdependence, NOT from being INdependent. It is imperative that each partner achieves a personal inner balance and radiates wholeness in order to create a strong foundation for “Synergy” to come to fruition.
Realizing our life purpose is a key component to a meaningful life. Life-purpose is our personal mission in this world, the reason why we are here. Being on purpose is living a life of virtue that is in harmony with nature and in service to humanity. This code of purpose gives us a sense of direction, even as circumstances change. When integrating our purpose in conjunction with a compatible partner, a synergy emerges which produces a level of fulfillment that is unattainable independently. When a couple allows themselves to be a conduit for universal orchestration, their relationship is enriched beyond the common definition of happiness. They have given birth to a new dimension, where both partners exist as distinct individuals and at the same time they also flourish as ONE. That is what we call Pure Bliss!
Just food for thought, Ananda – RayBella
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